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Relationship frustration

In Life, Women on May 5, 2012 at 10:36 pm

I don’t claim to know everything about women; show me a man who makes that claim and I’ll show you a fool. However, a lot of my female friends come to me when they’re having guy problems, so I do know a thing or two.

Well, girls, there’s something that’s been bothering me lately: your taste in men. I know you’re sick of hearing about the friend zone. But every time you start complaining about how your guy treats you, just remember that there are probably several legitimately good guys out there who wanted you – but you said: “nah, I’ll take the tool.” I’m sick of hearing about your boyfriend problems. If the guy’s a jerk (which most of the time he is), leave him! You can do so much better. It’s as simple as that.

Oh, and if your friends are telling you he’s not a good guy, they’re probably right.

Guys, we’re messing up, too. We need to start treating our girlfriends better. If you’re in a relationship with a girl, you should treat her like the most important thing in the world. She should be your number one priority. If you aren’t ready to make that kind of commitment, don’t date her! And for goodness sake, stop manipulating girls. Everything isn’t their fault. You’re lucky to be with her, and a bunch of other guys would kill to be in your position.

Be a gentleman. Treat women right. Make your parents proud.

That’s all.

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  1. What great advice! Lovely post!

  2. Agreed! Well said.
    My mother always said… you should marry your best friend.
    Thanks for sharing & being honest.

  3. I would like to like one of these gentleman you refer too, and thank you good post.

  4. All of the cliches are true, only not in the way you thought they would be. Of coarse we want what isn’t immediately, or even ever, available to us. Happiness is not found through being content, we are all killing ourselves for a bigger emotional pay out.

  5. Nicely done. It took me a while to learn this one and I was happy when I did. Thanks for sharing :)

  6. Where were you when I was young? If you know any “old guys” who think like you, I’ll take a referral!

  7. I couldn’t agree more! Here’s to hoping I meet a man like that. Like Beth says above, I intend to marry my best friend. :)

  8. Love it!!! Glad I found your blog!

  9. “But every time you start complaining about how your guy treats you, just remember that there are probably several legitimately good guys out there who wanted you – but you said: “nah, I’ll take the tool.””

    *sigh*

    I usually hear this either from self-proclaimed ‘Nice Guys’ who never bothered to share with the women they were interested that they were actually interested … or from guys who have a bunch of these guys as friends and who are tired of listening to them complain — but then once again give the women “advice” instead of telling the men to step it up.

    At least the “tools” let us know they’re actually interested. We don’t read minds.

    The worst vice is ADvice.

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